As I sit I question whether we all destined to find a life partner or are some of us left in the search for our missing piece? It’s a question many of us ask but a question that few can answer honestly.
I have often wondered if there is someone for everyone out there, I mean, after all I that is what I was always told a s a child and I have been lucky enough to find my soul mate but before we found each other I was single and I didn’t feel like I had to search for a missing piece, in fact I felt as much a whole person as I do now so perhaps the feeling of looking for that missing piece is not linked to finding a life partner or a soul mate but actually about finding yourself.
How many people can actually say they have taken a step back, had time out or hidden away so they could spend time with their self and get to know the personality that we all masquerade as what we want to show to other people, I know there are far too many people who parade themselves as a certain entity that is so far removed from the person that is hidden beneath therefore we should all be asking ourselves if we would want to find our soul mate in this situation, no, the answer is probably not because you would be falling for a stranger and vice versa , it would not be fair to deny yourself or them access to the wonderful soul that only surfaces when you are alone or caught off guard and yet those moments can feel so precious and real as we find ourselves feeling relaxed and at ease with ourselves, those are the moments when we access the real us and it is a shame that we don’t allow time for this in our hectic lives and I don’t mean a few moments when we sit and take a break I mean we should allow ourselves weeks, months or however long it takes to realise your true life partner inside of you.
As you spend the time you will find yourselves on the biggest learning curve you will ever experience, you will find new likes, dislikes and discover pleasures and pathways that you never thought applied to the person you so often paraded as the real you, only when you have travelled a way on this journey and I cant tell you how far or long this will be because once you have started it never really ends but there becomes a point where the real you is whole enough to look for someone to accompany you on the remainder of the journey, meaning that your soul mate does not become the missing piece of you but the complimentary piece and only then can you truly move on with your life knowing that if you will never be scared of not being part of a couple because you always be, you will always have yourself to carry on the journey with and that should never be thing to be afraid of…